Jaheim - Put That Woman First
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For this week’s Throwback Thursday, we revisit New Jersey R&B singer Jaheim’s 2002 R&B classic “Put That Woman First,” a standout single from his second studio album, Still Ghetto. Released on Divine Mill Records and Warner Bros. Records, the album debuted at No. 8 on the Billboard 200 and No. 3 on the Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums chart before eventually earning platinum status. Produced by Dinky Bingham and Naughty By Nature’s KayGee, “Put That Woman First” became one of Jaheim’s signature records, reaching No. 20 on the Billboard Hot 100.
Built around a sample of William Bell’s 1968 soul classic “I Forgot to Be Your Lover,” the song delivered a timeless message about appreciating the person beside you before taking the relationship for granted. Jaheim’s deep, soulful vocals gave the track an unmistakably mature perspective, making it feel less like a typical love song and more like a heartfelt lesson in commitment, accountability and respect. Its message resonated with listeners and helped establish the record as one of the defining “grown man” R&B songs of the early 2000s.
The Chris Robinson-directed video brought that message to life through a cinematic relationship drama starring actress and singer Taral Hicks, known for
A Bronx Tale and
Belly. Jaheim portrays a man consumed by work, money and time with his friends while neglecting his partner, eventually facing the painful consequences of his choices. Interspersed with emotional performance scenes (including Jaheim singing beside a grand piano) the visual captures the song’s themes of regret and realization. More than two decades later, “Put That Woman First” remains a beloved throwback and a reminder of an era when R&B could deliver romance, reflection and a life lesson all in one song.










