By Status Ain't Hood Staff
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September 9, 2026
R&B singer Bilal is facing allegations from Jamila Raegan, the mother of his adult son Bashir, who claims the artist has left her to handle their son’s care on her own. In an emotional Instagram post, Raegan also accused Bilal, whose full name is Bilal Oliver, of abuse, alleging that she had spent more than half her life protecting him. “I’m not okay because I’ve spent over half of my life protecting an abuser,” she wrote before identifying the singer by name. Raegan said Bashir has multiple disabilities, including autism and bipolar disorder, and accused Bilal of showing “complete disregard” as she manages his needs. Raegan said she is receiving support from relatives, friends and members of her community but remains overwhelmed by the situation. “I am caring for him alone while his father continues to live his life,” she wrote, later adding, “I am breaking. I am not okay.” She did not provide specific details about the abuse allegation or explain what financial, emotional or caregiving assistance she believes Bilal has failed to provide. Bilal briefly appeared to respond to the controversy in a comment on an Instagram post from The Jasmine Brand, writing, “Wow. This is so sad,” but he has not directly addressed or denied the allegations. The claims contrast with Bilal’s previous public discussions about fatherhood and his relationship with his children. His 2010 song “Little One,” from Airtight’s Revenge, was inspired by his children and accompanied by a video centered on a family learning that their child is autistic. In a 2011 interview, Bilal discussed using music, drumming, exercise and dietary changes as ways of supporting Bashir following his diagnosis. Bilal, who rose to prominence with his 2001 debut album 1st Born Second, has gone on to build a respected career spanning R&B, jazz and progressive soul, collaborating with artists including The Roots, Common, Erykah Badu, Kendrick Lamar, Beyoncé, Jay-Z and Robert Glasper.